Category Archives: Love

Congratulations !!!!!!

I am overjoyed as this week my baby girl nadia graduated from talent Unlimited High school.  

She is an amazing intelligent young lady …… who is talented beyond my wildest dreams , has the voice of an angel and has made me so proud… 


she will be continuing her college education at spelman college in the fall as a freshman. Where she will continue to be amazing, hardworking, dedicated woman she has become.
They have been my reason to live 


My inspiration my motivation and at times my salvation 


Now I prepare myself, as my baby girl is preparing to go off to spelman college in Georgia 
I’m again overjoyed as this school was mat easy to get into and it was a major accomplishment… and validation that hard work does pay off
I’m in this moment heart broken as this means she will be going off to Georgia and out of my reach 
Well steph I guess it will be you waking me up and helping me find my keys….lol
But really 

For you guys who don’t know us 

It has always been three 


It has always been us 

It has always been the two of them 


We are always together 

They are always together 

They grew up together 

Now they’ll be apart for the first time in 16 years 
I love these young ladies endlessly 

I’m proud to call them my daughters 

I’ll always be there for them

Dear spelman 

I am sending you my prized possession 

Don’t make me come see you…

M.S. 180 ….. thank you 
Ms Forbes…. we love you 
Ms Skoog ….. thank you 

Talent Unlimited High school…thank you 

David Ebershoff….. thanks for taking the time to inspire her young mind 
Thanks to everyone for The love and support 

Just a poem 

I remember the day’s when I had a whole lung for you When every breath I took I took for you

With every breath that Shook I shook for you 
Seeping from my lungs next to my heart 

Turning my red blood straight to black

Seeping from my heart out into my body

Consuming any chance I had to be happy 

Oh my! who new, we would never be happy 

Deep in thought, thinking of things of the past 

How can I live like this and not retaliate

How much pain can you inflict which I can’t alleviate 

I will not lie still while you ensure my destruction 

Oh you know for sure there will be repercussions 

Will I do it 

Can I do it 

Will I bear it 

You know I fear it
Boom is the sound of my world shaking 

Clash is the sound of my heart breaking
Can I do it 

Will I do it 

I will rise to the occasion, and will soar above the sky

I shall blow like a tornado and disperse them far and wide 

A kids story!!!

There once were two sisters ,

one named Stephanie and the other was Nadia.

They loved each other like no other.

They were always together…. like two peas in a pod

They laughed, danced, and played together

Whether sunshine or stormy weather

The love they shared was indeed a true treasure

 To tell the the truth, they always thought

they would be Together forever

 As time went by they grew up fast

Until the day came, where they found they would now be apart

The time had come for Nadia

To go away to college and spread her wings

The morning came and Nadia left

,Stephanie went to her room and wept and wept

She cried herself to sleep that night

Because you see her very best friend had left her behind

Stephanie was so depressed and lonely

She stopped doing the things she used to do

She no longer laughed, or played or danced

A matter of fact all she did was cry

1 day became 2 days became 3days became 4

And one week because 2 weeks became 3 weeks became 4

Cry cry cry, all she did was cry

After what seemed like months of crying

One evening upon returning home from school

Stephanie was sitting in the sofa, just watching some TV

She had had a busy day st school , and had just finished her home work. She was in one of her peculiar moods, where she now missed Nadia so very very much.

 the tears were at risk of making an appearance again but

Just then she noticed, that there was something strange by the window

She moved closer to get a better look

But she couldn’t see clearly

what was by the window she wondered

She moved just a little closer and just then she saw something swing back and forth

Swish,swash, and a swish and a swash

So quickly that she still couldn’t tell what it was

Swish swash and a swish and a swash

 To her surprise when she got close enough to see

What she saw was a tail growing from the window

Swinging back and forth with a swish and a swash, wiggling and swirling and sometimes just curling

Stephanie took a moment to observe the scene, and just started laughing laughing and laughing

The tail was so joyful, and happy you see

That Stephanie couldn’t help but join in and be merry

She got close enough to see what would happen

But the tail just kept swinging and swishing and swashing

She patted and smoothed and pampered her new tail

Which was just delighted at her touch

It wiggled and twirled with each touch it received

In this moment it just seemed to make Stephanie complete

Each day Stephanie looked forward to coming home from school

She just couldn’t wait to come home and play with her new friend the tail

Days became weeks became months after months

And Stephanie couldn’t remember a time she was happier

The pain she felt after Nadia went away, is now just a dull ache thanks to her new tail

Conversations with my daughter 

Being a parent in today’s society is not exactly the easiest thing… my girls are now 15 and 17(almost 18). And I have rules that I have always abided by.

A sore spot for me is the topic of sleep overs….. I don’t allow it

  • I can’t account for what happens in other people’s homes behind closed doors…. and if you harm a hair on the head of my child…. you will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law and I won’t even think twice about it….

So My seventeen year old made a good case for celebrating a friends birthday at a sleepover…. I mean the parents called for permission ( as they know how I am with my baby) and everything seemed to be on the up and up… so I said if you get your dad to says yes,then I’ll support that decision

Dad said yes ,  when it was time for her to leave, my 15 year old caught wind of the situation and discovered that she would be without her sister from Friday night to Sunday evening-
That little Girl started crying  and hugging her sister( I thought she was Kidding) but I was informed by her sister that she was really crying….lol

This morning I woke up ,  my 15 year old daughter said to me:

You know, you and dad need to be cautious about what you’re saying yes to-

I said you mean like you tricked me into getting your ears pierced

She said no, that’s not the same thing

You see she’s leaving next year for College , and we don’t have a lot of time left with her….

This can’t happen again……

So there you have it I was being chastised by my 15 year old daughter…..lmao

I just walked away dying of laughter

Does ones color dictate whether you give them the time of day????

One day I was talking to my brother, I asked him how come his girlfriends are always lighter in color?

I always thought that he just preferred girls that were lighter in color …

He said you know what sis ….ever since I was younger growing up … The only girls that would give me the time of day was the lighter ones

I would try to talk to the dark skinned girls, but they just weren’t interested ..

But the minute I looked at or said a word to the girls lighter in color, it was game on. 

Now I know that there are some people who are against interracial relationships

But it never occurred to me that some black women are not interested in some of their own black men because of their complexion

Wether it be that they’re too light, to dark or whatever the case may be …

Is this the same with men, does the color of the skin within your own race matter, does the girl you date have to be a specific shade of brown, black or whatever your choice of color.


I personally didn’t have a preference , if I liked you as a person, your color didn’t matter

What are your thoughts on this matter ?