Category Archives: Relationship

Congratulations !!!!!!

I am overjoyed as this week my baby girl nadia graduated from talent Unlimited High school.

She is an amazing intelligent young lady …… who is talented beyond my wildest dreams , has the voice of an angel and has made me so proud…

she will be continuing her college education at spelman college in the fall as a freshman. Where she will continue to be amazing, hardworking, dedicated woman she has become.
They have been my reason to live

My inspiration my motivation and at times my salvation.

Now I prepare myself, as my baby girl is preparing to go off to spelman college in Georgia
I’m again overjoyed as this school was mat easy to get into and it was a major accomplishment… and validation that hard work does pay off
I’m in this moment heart broken as this means she will be going off to Georgia and out of my reach
Well steph I guess it will be you waking me up and helping me find my keys….lol
But really

For you guys who don’t know us

It has always been three

It has always been us

It has always been the two of them 

We are always together 

They are always together

They grew up together

Now they’ll be apart for the first time in 16 years
I love these young ladies endlessly 

I’m proud to call them my daughters

I’ll always be there for them

Dear spelman

I am sending you my prized possession

Don’t make me come see you…

M.S. 180 ….. thank you
Ms Forbes…. we love you
Ms Skoog ….. thank you

Talent Unlimited High school…thank you

David Ebershoff….. thanks for taking the time to inspire her young mind
Thanks to everyone for The love and support

Just a poem 

I remember the day’s when I had a whole lung for you When every breath I took I took for you

With every breath that Shook I shook for you 
Seeping from my lungs next to my heart 

Turning my red blood straight to black

Seeping from my heart out into my body

Consuming any chance I had to be happy 

Oh my! who new, we would never be happy 

Deep in thought, thinking of things of the past 

How can I live like this and not retaliate

How much pain can you inflict which I can’t alleviate 

I will not lie still while you ensure my destruction 

Oh you know for sure there will be repercussions 

Will I do it 

Can I do it 

Will I bear it 

You know I fear it
Boom is the sound of my world shaking 

Clash is the sound of my heart breaking
Can I do it 

Will I do it 

I will rise to the occasion, and will soar above the sky

I shall blow like a tornado and disperse them far and wide 

Does ones color dictate whether you give them the time of day????

One day I was talking to my brother, I asked him how come his girlfriends are always lighter in color?

I always thought that he just preferred girls that were lighter in color …

He said you know what sis ….ever since I was younger growing up … The only girls that would give me the time of day was the lighter ones

I would try to talk to the dark skinned girls, but they just weren’t interested ..

But the minute I looked at or said a word to the girls lighter in color, it was game on. 

Now I know that there are some people who are against interracial relationships

But it never occurred to me that some black women are not interested in some of their own black men because of their complexion

Wether it be that they’re too light, to dark or whatever the case may be …

Is this the same with men, does the color of the skin within your own race matter, does the girl you date have to be a specific shade of brown, black or whatever your choice of color.

I personally didn’t have a preference , if I liked you as a person, your color didn’t matter

What are your thoughts on this matter ?

Hey Mr.

Hey Mr. Before today you never met me

so then can you please tell me

why do you hate me

why did you pick me out of the crowd

walking innocently on the street

why did you choose to target me

Why do you want to eliminate me

If you had a gun would you try to shoot me

Or does it matter the manner in which you

try to kill me


You know you have a deadly weapon


And you deliberately tried to impose upon


To give me a death sentence I did not


To rob me of my ideas and my right to



Unfortunately for you

I knew you were out there

I knew you existed and that you are twisted

You see

I know HIV exist

And I will not fall for your tricks

I know I can’t identify you

And I might not be able to avoid falling for


But I will continue to protect myself from


Because knowledge is power

And right now abstinence is the only cure for you

And if I can’t avoid you let me remind you

No glove no love

For while I might give my love to you

I will not give my life to you

And it’s definitely not yours to take